What does it take to unlock and enjoy your ultimate life? For author, coach, and speaker Kellan Fluckiger, it is all about understanding your purpose and actively choosing to live according to it. In this enlightening conversation, we discuss how to take control of your reality and write your very own story according to your chosen terms. We delve into the importance of making the conscious choice of creating positive habits, recognizing messages from your intuition, and spending more time on loving yourself. Kellan also shares all about his Daily Creation Process (DCP) and how it elevates his morning routine in a deeply spiritual and emotional way.
—
Watch the episode here
Listen to the podcast here
Unlocking Your Ultimate Life With Kellan Fluckiger
As promised, I have another great guest for you. His name’s Kellan Fluckiger. We had the good fortune of meeting at an event we were at in Pensacola, Florida, and I was so impressed with the human being that we have with us now and the type of person he presented himself as and the inspirational conversation that we had as we got to know one another. I just had to have him on as a guest. Kellan, welcome to the show.
Wade, thanks for being here. The first thing I want to do is I want to honor you and acknowledge you, a show of any kinds of labor of love. That means that you go through a lot of effort and energy to put out content that’s free for people and they don’t understand how much work you do and how valuable it is. Sometimes people don’t because it’s free. I just want to honor you for the work you’re doing and how you add good to the world.
Introducing Author, Speaker, And Coach Kellan Fluckiger
You’re great. Thank you for that. Kellan, there’s a lot of people who probably haven’t heard of you, at least in my audience. Would you mind sharing with us a little bit about your background, where you came from, and how you’ve become who you are now?
That’s a long story, but I’ll tell it short. I started in a typical family. My lower middle-class mom and dad had a lot of crap going on in my life growing up and struggled with the feeling of not good enough. Do you recognize that? A feeling of not good enough and literally clinical depression for decades because back in those years, you didn’t talk about that stuff and you certainly didn’t get help or know how to do on any of that.
I lived a long time in my life trying to prove that I was somebody to something and not being happy about it. Maybe you recognize that, trying to get ahead and even winning and then failing and creating self-sabotage and failure and over and over again. Finally, when I was 52, which is in 2007, I had some miraculous things happen that didn’t fix me, but it gave me the opportunity to really examine and take control of my life, so I did.
For me, that looked like walking away from everything that I had and knew and starting over, like jump off the cliff and build your parachute on the way down, which I don’t recommend as the normal approach to things, but in my case, that was required. In the last few years, I have become a coach. I did the work I needed to heal myself and to work through understanding who I was, who I wanted to be.
That’s interesting because often, we go around looking at who am I supposed to be? That’s a useless question. You are who you decide you are. You declare and create your reality. The more we know, the better we can do that, perhaps. At the end of the day, you get what you look for. You find what you seek, you create what you want.
I went through a period of learning that, all of it the hard way, and eventually ended up being able to get, have sense enough to get the help I needed, get some coaches, mentors, shrinks and other things in my case. To launch myself on a way to not only heal, but then come to the realization that the journey that I had gone through in that healing and growth could be really valuable to others.
That’s what pushed me in the direction of all this has happened or is happening to me because I’m creating it with all this help I believe and know that that could be of value to others. That’s what launched me into being a coach. I spent 30 years in the energy industry and C-suite positions in United States and Canada, and that’s where all the misery was in those 30 years.
That was from 17 to 52, actually 35 years. Anyway, now I’m a coach, I’m an author, I’m a speaker. I’ve written twenty books. I speak all over the place. My commitment now, this year, is to reach 300 million people with a message of your divinity capability and possibility, which means you can create anything you want no matter what’s going on around you. The sooner you own that sovereignty, the happier you’ll be, the more successful you’ll be, including cash.
I talk all the time about the ultimate life purpose, prosperity, and joy. You can actually have that. It’s not some idea out there in the future. Someday. You can have that now. That’s a really short version. I’m in the middle of writing book 21 and I have a boatload more planned. Isn’t that fun? Every one of them have come from this experience that I have gone through.
Triple Helix Of An Ultimate Life
Kellan, thank you for that brief synopsis. There’s a ton that we could go into there. I think the most important thing that’s coming to mind for me for this interview is this idea of living a life of purpose. That you literally get to design your life. It’s not pre-set, it’s not automatically going to be whatever it’s going to be, but we get to have choice in who we are in our day-to-day lives and the work that we choose to do and the solving of problems that we do and the people that we serve, etc. You talk about this ultimate life. What does that mean? Can you tell us more about what you mean by that and maybe some stories that go along with that?
Yeah, so purpose. I have people, clients, maybe you do too, who come and say, “I don’t know what my purpose is. I haven’t found it yet.” The language and attitude is like, it’s going to come in an Amazon box. You’re going to go on a dig it up in the backyard, you’re going to go find it. You don’t find a purpose, you choose one. I have a process called the triple helix. You create your purpose, you choose it.
Let’s go back to something you said just there. You’re already creating your life. This isn’t going to be a new thing. The life you have right now, you created, you may or may not like that truth, but you did. It might have been through inattention, inaction, lack of taking sovereign control, but you created it. Don’t get upset about that and don’t get mad at me, I’m just a messenger.
That’s the truth. That’s beautiful because that means you can create any new thing you want. Instead of arguing that your misfortune or whatever’s going on in your life as a result of a bunch of other people, why don’t you own the truth that you create it and then say, “That’s the coolest thing I ever heard because that means I can create whatever I want.” That’s the truth.
Ultimate life to me is purpose, prosperity, and joy. Every one of you’re going to have your own words, which is fine. Purpose means that Kellan flies out of bed every morning with a delightful joy, excited about talking to you now about everything else I’m doing. I never have trouble leaning into what I have to do today because you know what? I have no obligations. I have lots of commitments, but I have no obligations.
The idea of obligation carries the feeling of resentment. “I’d rather be doing something else, but I have this obligation,” nonsense. Purpose means I have one. This year it’s to reach 300 million people. I have a podcast with 1,000 episodes and I have a talk radio show and I’ve written 20 books and I speak all over the place. Why? It’s because I’m going to reach 300 million people with this message and the method and mastery. That is my purpose. Why? It’s because I chose it.
The triple helix is about your skills, your gifts, and your life experience. There’s a process which you don’t have time to do now, about how to create a purpose and choose it and lean into it and own it and have that be your driver. That’s the purpose. Prosperity, I use that word instead of cash, but it includes cash. Prosperity is a wealth, an abundance of love, of life, of joy, of cash.
Prosperity is a wealth and abundance of love, life, joy, and cash.
When you find your MEO, Most Effective Offering, through that process, you have the ability to make the most impact, the most money, and have the most fun. Why would you not do that? Either because you don’t know how or you don’t believe you can or you allow other things to distract you. Purpose, prosperity, prosperity in every sense of the word, and joy, which means that I live literally morning to night, first breath to last, exactly as you see me right now. I’m excited. I’m this, this is Kellan, straight up un-vintaged, unvarnished, or whatever that word is. That’s having a life of purpose, prosperity, and joy. I didn’t, I do and I know every single step that I took intentionally to get from here to here.
Purpose, prosperity and joy, and living in joy all day long. When did that arrive for you?
A few years ago.
I say “arrived,” but when did it happen?
Actually, it doesn’t happen. It’s not a switch. It’s like you get more.
In a way, you chose it, so isn’t that the switch, like you choose joy?
Mastering Notice And Choose Mindset
It is but here’s the thing. When we have old habits, habits have gravity. They pull us back into old things, old stories, and they come up and notice and choose. There’s a framework little thing that I teach really easy. Notice and choose. Get in the habit of noticing where am I right now? Mentally, emotionally, spiritually, where am I? I’m angry, I’m frustrated, I’m pissed off at so-and-so. I’m blaming spouse, business, partner, economy, God, whatever. I’m blaming. I’m noticing that.
What do I choose to do? I think I’m going to not do that. I’m going to choose to focus on this. Notice and choose. I have a bunch of these and I call them billion-dollar secrets. If you learn to master notice and choose, you can have anything you want. It applies to every aspect. Physical, spiritual, emotional, mental, financial.
Notice and choose. Where am I? What am I thinking? What am I feeling? What am I doing? Who am I blaming? Who am I listening to? Notice and choose. The joy came gradually and I had habit gravity just like anybody else where it’s easier to go in this old thing, this old way, this old thought pattern or this old hitting snooze button 47 times to get up. I don’t want to get up.
I had all that just like everybody else. It went to way, the more I became, I chose to be connected to the purpose I had declared, not found. I told you what this year’s purpose is. Last year I had one and that one before that and one before that, and one before that. Next year, I’ll have a different one. Sometimes, they relate to money in business and sometimes, money in business is an outcome of the actions.
Right now, my business plan is going to terrify all the financial planners in the universe. It is I find people to love opportunities to serve and problems to solve. I have clients running out my ears. The reason is because I’m not approaching them with how much can I get you to pay me? I don’t care. I just go do the things that need to be done. I’m selective because I have limited time like we all do. Yeah. That’s where it came from. It came as I notice and choose. Notice and choose, and today and for the last several years, I’m absolutely riveted to the processes I have because I love them. They make me feel so good. They produce such cool results.
Getting Rid Of A Life Of Addiction
You said at age 52, you had this realization that life was not great like there was something not working, extremely not working. Now you said many years later it’s very different. What was the tipping point for you?
It was not a little realization. The dude in August of 2007 was a drug addict. I was making so much money that my $3,000 a week drug habit didn’t matter. I was single again for the third time. I had attempted suicide two weeks before. I was a wreck. If there was anybody that should have been left at the bottom of the canyon, I was the face on that poster. That’s who I was in August of 2007.
Two weeks after my second suicide attempt, I had a miraculous occurrence. Some things that can’t happen, but it’s a spiritual nudge. I spoke at a summit about NDE, Near Death Experiences, because I had one of those when I died in 2018. That’s a different story. I had a fatal illness and I died in the ICU. In 2007, it was just an invitation. You right here, right now, if you want to be reading, know that you’ve had intuitions, inspirations, ideas, thoughts, that you should do something. Most of the time, we ignore them or we are afraid of them, or we push them away or we say, “Later, I don’t have time.”
One of the most important skills we can develop, if you want purpose, prosperity and joy, is learn to develop and listen your ability to hear the intuition and then notice and choose to act on that immediately, fearlessly, whether you know the path or not. What happened in 2007 was a gigantic wake up call. It was nothing more than a spiritual nudge. It happened to be a 2 by 4, probably because 200 million or 300 million other ones that I’d had before that I had not paid attention to.
One of the most important skills you can develop if you want purpose, prosperity, and joy is to learn how to listen to your intuition and act on it fearlessly.
What this proves to me is I don’t care where you’ve been, I don’t care what’s happened, I don’t care who you are or what’s come before. You matter now. There is always an invitation and it is our opportunity to notice and choose. I’m happy to tell the details of the experience, but it would take a few minutes. If you want the details there in a book called Tightrope of Depression: My Journey from Darkness, Despair, and Death to Light, Love and Life.
If somebody wanted to read about that, where would they find it?
It’s on Amazon. All my books are all twenty of them. This is what it looks like, Tightrope of Depression, if you want the details of that experience. It didn’t fix anything. Divine invitations never fix it. They’re just an invitation. They’re a wakeup call, they’re a presentation of a possibility. It’s up to you. It was to me that day to say, “I don’t know how hard this is going to be. I don’t know how much broken glass I’m going to have to crawl over. For me it was a lot. I don’t know, but I’m going.” The answer is yes to the invitation.
These nudges, these invitations, we all have them coming at us, oftentimes overlooking them. Sometimes we need that big whack with a 2 by 4 to get us to make a life change. It seems like we have I think you called it the Habit Gravity.
Yeah, that’s a word. I call it spiritual gravity, energetic gravity, because I relate it to physical gravity. We depend on that. If you’re working out in a gym, they call it the truth of the iron. 100 pounds today and 100 pounds tomorrow is the same thing. You know what that is. You have energetic or spiritual gravity, that’s exactly the same way. When you try to make a physical change in the gym, like if I’m going to go from 100 to 200 pounds and I try to do that, there’s a big amount of resistance. If you go in your energetic or spiritual habits or however fit or not fit, you are in that and you try to make a sudden enormous change, the resistance against that is going to be staggering just like it is in the gym.
There’s no difference. It’s an absolute parallel. You have to be prepared to do the work. There’s a ramp, you can start now, but the commitment to start is a commitment to just keep walking the road, to go to the gym 3, 4, 5 times a week or run or do body weight exercises in your bedroom or whatever it is. I’m going to do this thing with the understanding that it’s going to take some time.
We live in a world now where everybody thinks all the problems should be solved in the length of a TV sitcom or everything’s download and double click. If I order today, it’ll be here for Amazon tomorrow or tonight even. That’s just not how development, spiritual, physical, emotional, mental or financial work. It takes the knowledge, the effort, a declaration of willingness, and then you got to move.
You got to walk the path.
That’s right.
I’ve heard the phrase many times in my life, “By small and simple things are great things brought to pass.” I think that’s what you’re getting at here. Those step by step little things will create great results but we’ve got to start.
Start now. I don’t care where you’re at. I’ll say this again. I don’t care where you’re at. I don’t care what’s come before you matter today, right now, as you read this. It’s your choice to say, “I’ve heard this message and I’m going to start. Where am I going?” I don’t know. You get to decide. You get to decide how committed you are to that destination.
I know Wade does financial stuff. You say, “I want to double my net worth, or I want to add 50% to my annual revenue or something.” That’s fine. There are known and tested steps to do any of those things. Here’s where you are, here’s where you want to be. What I can promise you is there is a road. The only question for me and for you is, am I willing to do what it takes to walk that road?
Determine Where Your Hours Are Going
Yeah, we’ve got to pay the price. There’s going to be an excuse that all of us come up with. That is, “I don’t have time or I’m overwhelmed. I’m too busy.” How do you coach people through that?
Here’s the truth, you and I have exactly all the time there is. We have all the time there is and we have the same amount. One of the things I have my clients do is I tell them to go the last 2 weeks and make a detailed list of everything that happened with their 168 hours. There’s 168 hours in a week, you’ll find them. For the last week, where was all of your 168 hours and maybe the week before that?
Without fail, people always have about 30 or so, maybe sometimes 40, they can’t find. They don’t really know. Even you can’t sleep and bathroom time and whatever and you get dressed in the morning and went to work. You add it all up and you don’t really know. That’s not an indictment. It’s just an awareness.
What I have people do is for the next week or two, count your time. Figure out where it all went. Again, that’s not an indictment that something’s wrong, but you look at where you’re putting your hours, your minutes, because time is all that we’ve got. Time and the freedom to choose what to do with it. You can’t manage time because it’s going to do what it does. We only can manage ourselves.
When someone takes a choice to do a new thing, you have to look at your calendar, your time allocation, and you have to make explicit trades. The reason I say that is because there’s nobody watching this that spends a bunch of time with their feet up counting the dots in acoustic ceiling tile. You just don’t do that. Your life is full. If you’re going to put a new thing in it, and I’m going to spend 3 hours a week doing this, or 5 hours a week, or 10 hours a month or something, you’ve got to find it. It’s going to be an explicit trade. What I recommend is not to say, “Forever I’m going to do this,” because forever’s too long.
I’m going to do this for a week and I’m going to see how that feels. I’m going to see if the explicit trade I made is worth it. One of the most powerful pieces of knowledge about this is to drop the drama. When you look at your schedule, if you don’t like how it’s allocated, you don’t have to accompany that with a bunch of shame, guilt, anger and frustration. “I watch too much TV.” That doesn’t help us change.
Just notice and choose. What do I choose to do with that? Why? That goes back to purpose. I’m choosing to reach 300 million people. That means I choose not to take a lot of time watching TV or doing other things because I would rather make a little more progress toward my goal than watch some episode of whatever.
I think that’s super practical to do a time evaluation or an inventory of our time. I really appreciate you bringing up that we shouldn’t, it’s not helpful to judge ourselves about that and make it an emotional issue. Just notice, let it be an awareness for us and then make some decisions. Am I okay with this? Would I prefer to be it differently? I love the truncated timeline. It’s not forever.
Starting A Daily Creation Process
For the next week, I’m going to do this, try it on, see how it feels, and then if I like it, make some adjustments, do it longer, and perhaps make it a habit. One of those things that I’ve brought up with many of my clients over the years is a daily routine in the morning. What’s been your experience with a morning routine and how that’s been valuable for you?
I don’t like the word morning ritual or morning routine, and I don’t mind that you use it, but it’s cliché and everybody says it. I call it something else. I call it a DCP, Daily Creation Process. The reason that I call it that is because it has to be daily. I don’t know why God created us to sleep away a third of our lives, but he did. Maybe next time I have a conversation with him, I’ll ask. It didn’t come up last time. We have the opportunity. We die every night and we’re morning in every morning, essentially.
A really important question is, who do I want to be today? I want to be the drag my ass out of bed, barely have the energy, don’t bother me until I’ve had my coffee or whatever you do. Gimme the phone, email. Do I want to be that guy or that gal? Is that who I want to be? Almost nobody would say yes to that. When you think about that and you think about maybe you’re even that, you go, “I don’t want to be that.” Okay, cool. What do I want to be?
Since 2007, two things have become the most important. One is the declaration of who I am. I call it a PTAC, Personal Truth and Commitment document. I’m not going to talk about that right now. The second one is the DCP, Daily Creation Process, which is the process by which I make the things in the document or the choices that I’ve made about purpose real for my life for that day, right here, right now. I use an acronym, SPEM, Spiritual, Physical, Emotional, Mental. I realize there’s some people that have life wheels with 12 and 15 and 27 parts and all that stuff. Too complicated.
Spiritual, physical, emotional, and mental. When I am prepared in those four areas, then I show up all the time every single day without fail in full power. It’s like an Olympic athlete. You never know an athlete that warms up after the game, after the meet. You just don’t do that. Why wouldn’t we say, “I am so committed to who I am and what I’m creating, that I’m going to warm up every day and bring my very best self to the day?”
When I teach this, I start with 40 minutes and I tell them 10, 10, 10, 10, 10 minutes in spiritual stuff, 10 minutes in physical stuff, 10 minutes in E, which is emotional stuff, which includes all your relationships, even going to yourself and your God, and then M is mental, which includes your capacity to think. Spending ten minutes in a spiritual context is not difficult. You could pray, you can meditate, you can read sacred literature and you can have 7 or 8 things I do that I might use in that space.
One of them is reciting from memory in the most powerful way possible my document or working on self-love. When was the last time you looked in the mirror and said, “I love you?” Try it. It might be really squirmy. You might feel that’s really awkward to start with, I don’t know, but you do something for that period of time that feeds your spirit. It energizes that intangible part of us. The physical part can be whatever you want. Even if you’re going to go to the gym later, don’t put it off. This is a way of waking up and honoring your body. Stretches. Yoga. I did martial arts for decades, so I have a bunch of stretches or whatever it is.
Pushups, body weight stuff. Just wake it up. Honor the temple that is your body. If you’re busted in some way, like I am, my back hurts now and I’ve got some deteriorated discs and whatever, then you have to modify a little bit. You can still do stuff. Do the stuff that you can do to honor and wake up your body. E is emotional and that is a nod, an intentional focus nod to the relationships of your life.
I send love notes and this is not all I do, but love notes are messages of encouragement or love to people. Since we’ve got Messenger and SMS and all that stuff, it’s easy to do. Usually, in my meditation, in the first part, some names will come to me or I’ll scroll really quickly through Messenger and just look and names will pop up and I’ll just turn on the voice recorder and tell them how much I love them or encourage them.
Maybe it’s a repair attempt. Maybe something happened yesterday that sucks and you’re going, “I don’t think that went like we wanted. I don’t know about you, but I’d like to,” whatever. Maybe you’re doing that. It is an intentional focused way to create, to level up, to repair, to acknowledge your relationships. Mental is some kind of reading. I’ve got like 30 books and stacks over here that I’m always in the middle of. They’re all kinds of stuff a lot.
An intentional and focused way to level up, repair, and acknowledge your relationships is to spend some time reading.
Most of them are personal development stuff, but they’re the huge gamut of things. All the way from Heidgger’s Being and Time to books on Werner Earhart and The Forum to Napoleon Hill, to everything you ever heard of. There are stacks of them. I just pick one and read in it and lean into it and just intentionally look for nuggets and coaching. For me, how can I look at and think about things differently?
My ritual’s a lot longer than that now, but when I start teaching it, it’s just start with 10, 10, 10, 10 and do that for a week. Next week, when we talk, let’s see how that feels. Most of the time, people come back, “I did it three days.” That is a level of commitment. My ritual when I tell people this is two and a half hours. When I tell people that, they say, “I don’t have time.”
Here’s what I can promise you, it creates time because I spend those two and a half hours, it creates five. It creates five hours for me. I more than double the time invested in that every day without fail. How it creates time, decisions are faster, there’s less second guessing, there’s no mistakes, there is intentional and inspired action.
Things get done more quickly. It just is amazing over and over again. Every day, you begin to access this miraculous creative intuition and ability not as magic, but because you’re developing it. It went from hitting snooze. I hate to get up and I don’t want to, all that and missing days and everything. Now and for the last several years, I would know sooner skip my morning ritual than I run outside here in Edmonton, Alberta naked in the snow when it’s minus 40. You just don’t do that. I never skip, ever. Is that enough?
That’s awesome. I like the variety that can exist within our morning ritual routine or daily creation process. The analogy of like the athlete, like we admire athletes, we look up to them and if we look at the patterns of their success, we can use that in our day-to-day lives as basically a corporate athlete or a business athlete. We set up our day for success, we envision it, we decide who we are, we declare it verbally who we are.
I’ve got some of these practices I’ve used for years and years as well. Who I am for my clients, I am a powerful creator. I am a conscious being of light and love, a seeker of truth and a conduit for divine will. I strive to be that type of person so I can support those that I interact with no matter who it is every day. I always lift people up and leave them better than I found them.
Your book, Living with Purpose and Power: Creating Your Guiding Stars and Live the Ultimate Life. I love this book. It’s been very powerful me for powerful for me. I’m studying the documents you’ve shared with us in the back end of this, revising and improving my own. Any reader here, I highly recommend that book. If you’re getting into this is new or maybe even just want to enhance what you’re doing, I’ve loved revisiting somebody else’s perspective on these topics that I’ve been aware of for many years, taught my clients for many years.
As you just said, people get so much more done. You, reader, will get so much more out of the time you have by being intentional with the startup of your day. I have so many evidences from my clients who say these exact things. “It was easier to get through the day. I had more energy. I was able to interact with these patients of mine or these clients of mine or these customers of mine much more effectively. Time was compressed. I don’t know how it worked, but it did.”
It does. Time is time. We all know there’s a state of flow, there’s a state of optimal performance, there’s brainwave patterns. If you want to read about that, read Stephen Kotler’s books. He talks about flow state and all the chemistry that goes into it, but it’s true and it’ll work for you. Each one of you. We’re all built that way. We may have habits that have pulled us in a different direction and that’s okay.
Make a declaration of independence now. Declare your sovereignty over your choices and your life. If you improve 1% tomorrow or today, in a month, you’ll be 30% better. In 90 days, 100 days, you’ll be 100% better. The days go by either way, so notice and choose. If you notice resistance or, “I can’t do that,” coming up for you, ask what that’s about. Who’s talking here? Who’s speaking? It might be the voice of past experience. It might be the voice of parents or family or spouse or somebody that says, “Whatever, you suck. You can’t do that.” Who do you want running your life? Old experiences and bad stories? No. You own your life, so let’s make the most of it.
Why You Should Love Yourself Enough
As we wrap up this episode, Kellan, if there was one thing you’d challenge our readers to do this week to accelerate their personal and financial growth, what would that be?
Thank you for asking. You mentioned financial and a lot of the stuff we’ve talked about might seem woo-woo and a little bit in space. I’m going to make a direct, immediate and unbreakable connection between all the stuff we’ve talked about and your cash. All of this will create more cash for you. You’ll be clearer about who you are, what you stand for. You’ll be clearer about the value you bring to your own company or in your job.
You will be noticed and recognized as a beacon of light. You’ll get better assignments, things will happen that will increase your position, your power and your prosperity, including your bank account. It is an immutable law that that is true. The thing I want to share with you to start right now, and probably the biggest barrier to people doing this is that you don’t love yourself enough.
Here’s what I would use as a measurement. If I were a fly on the wall or a molecule in your brain and I heard every internal and external conversation and saw everything you did or said inside and out, would I exclaim to myself, “Wow, that’s a person who truly loves themselves?” If thought makes you cringe, then what I’d invite you to do is explore why. What would I do if I loved who I am, the divine being that I’ve been created with purpose and mission?
What would I do? How would I talk to me? That exercise in the mirror, go look in the mirror. Set a timer on your phone. Take five minutes and just look at yourself and say, “I love you.” Maybe you need a reason. “I love you for being on this journey. I love you for even starting to try this crazy thing.” Whatever it is, your foundation is self-love, good, wholesome, powerful, lifting and blessing self-love. I’m not talking about self-indulgence or weird stuff. I’m talking about loving the being and the capability that you are. Divinity, capability, possibility.
Love that. I don’t care where you’ve been or what’s come before. Start now and grow that love 1% because when that grows your ability to do these rituals or these daily creation processes, your ability to show up powerfully, to know the right thing to do, that just goes up and up. When you don’t love yourself and you try to do this on top, it’s a fight. Your self-belief, when it’s different than actions you take, the belief wins every time, all the time. You end up fighting and fighting this battle. Work on this love. Self-love. That’s the thing I would tell you to start with right here, right now.
Thank you for that powerful invitation. I reiterate that, folks. If you’re in a place where you’re not feeling quite your best, take some action. It’s changed my life. In 2010, I had some experiences with not being in a loving state with myself and I had some invitations similar to what Kellan’s giving you now, and it absolutely transformed my life. Thanks for that invitation.
Get In Touch With Kellan
If anyone wanted to connect with you, your content, support you on your mission of achieving 300 million life transformational conversations or however you said that, what would people need to do? Where would they need to go to connect with you and support your mission of helping people live the ultimate life?
Thank you for asking and anybody that wants to help me do that, I love it. Here’s how you can. With a name like Kellan Fluckiger, you can’t hide. If you want to find me, Google. You do have to spell it right. There’s a zillion hits from my old executive stuff, but mostly now from my new stuff. I’m on most of the socials. You can talk to me there if you’d like to.
KellanFluckigerMedia.com. This website here shows you all the things that I have in one place. There’s also a contact form on there if you’d like to get ahold of me. I’m easy to find. I would invite you to connect. I have a YouTube channel. It’s got 1,000 videos. It’s called Ultimate Life Formula. I have a podcast called Your Ultimate Life.
We’re not quite at 1,000, but 972. We’re going to get to 1,000. It can’t be an excuse that you can’t find me. Nonsense. If any of the thing that I’ve said invites you to love yourself more or to take a little action, then do it. Your life is in your hands because if you don’t create it, somebody else will. We end up running around being the vessel of somebody else. That doesn’t usually lead to happiness. That usually leads to resentment and obligations and a feeling of being trapped and all that stuff. You don’t have to live like that.
Your life is in your hands. If you do not create it, somebody else will, and you will end up running around being a vessel of another person.
I say this a lot. We have to make personal finance personal, and this is the personal side we’ve been talking about in this episode. Get into your personal life, get to know who you are and choose into who you are going to be so that your financial life improves automatically. You don’t have to become super knowledgeable. It just happens. Opportunities will come. I’ve experienced it, Kellan’s experienced it. We know plenty of people who have experienced it. Choosing to this, guys, thank you for being here. Thank you for reading. Kellan, thank you for being here. I love and appreciate you.
You are welcome. Thanks for having me.
You’re welcome. We’ll see you in the next episode.
Episode Resources
- Kellan Fluckiger
- Tightrope of Depression: My Journey from Darkness, Despair, and Death to Light, Love and Life
- Being and Time
- Living with Purpose and Power: Creating Your Guiding Stars and Live the Ultimate Life
- Ultimate Life Formula YouTube
- Your Ultimate Life Podcast
About Kellan Fluckiger
